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Book recommendations to help kids understand and prepare for puberty?

Guest — Sat, 17 Dec 2022 11:52:41 +0000

Thanks!

Day trips to Berkshires?

Whasssup — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 14:09:03 +0000

Any particular locations you like to visit with kids?

Molly

Teen Acne Angst!!

ParkWanderer — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:55:53 +0000

Our 14 yo is struggling with acne. The dermatologist said it's hormonal. Ok, so now what? She's very insecure about it. I can see her shy away even from me. I try not to comment other than to try to find some ways to help but even bringing it up to help her makes her upset. Big problem area around the chin and bottom half of her cheeks. Poor gal. We've tried different gentle washes and have adjusted the diet. I'm open to all of your suggestions. ALL!! I've read lots of blogs and find mostly ads and promotions. I'd like some honest opinions, ideas and good product recommendations. Thanks so much! Vic

Saving $$ for our son

AmericaBeautiful — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:54:11 +0000

We opened a bank account for our son (2yo). His grandparents have said they will give $500 each year as birthday and holiday and we put in direct deposit $50 per month The goal is to leave it, let it sit, let it grow. When he is 21 or so, maybe he can use it for whatever he is passionate about, a big happy gift, ideally a small downpayment for his first apartment or house. This is separate from his education savings which we have in a 529.

Any reactions? how much do you save for your kid(s)? I'm not trying to keep up or compare financially, I am more curious about ideas for better ways to save, teach about money, etc.

Thanks,

Cam

Santa believers until what age?

Anonymous — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:48:08 +0000

Do your kids still believe in Santa? When did they or do you think the age is when they stop?

Newborn baby weight gain

Anonymous — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:46:43 +0000

Hi everyone. Can you give me your advice? Newborn came home at 6lb8oz, a few ounces less than birth weight. he lost a few more ounces in first week, before I realized I wasn't producing enough. We put him on supplement at about 3 weeks and now the doc is saying he is gaining too much weight. She recommends we cut back on the formula. None of my friends ever heard that from their pediatricians. does it make sense that a baby (he's 6 weeks now) can gain too much weight?

Julie

How to stop the food waste in our house?

Guest — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:44:10 +0000

Single mom here with one 6yo. I feel like I'm constantly throwing out extra food. I wrap what will keep for a day or two, but I still feel like there is too much waste. That's not good for the environment and not good for my wallet. I need to do a better job with portions when cooking. Do you have any other tips? Meal planning? Uses for leftovers?

14 mo old Hitting & Screaming

ChickFilA — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:40:17 +0000

14 month old has been hitting and screaming too much. he does it to us, his brothers and I've seen him hit and get way too close and scream at friends. His older brothers can handle it and usually put him in his place quickly. I don't tolerate it either. I use time out, explanation, walk away, etc. These work, I stay calm, he stops. Don't get me wrong, he cries and it's annoying, but it's not the same high anger hitting and screaming. Anyway, that seems to work but it's not effective enough for some reason. He has screamed at other grown ups (a counselor at the gym club, soccer coach) and at friends. It's so frustrating, slightly horrifying. We didn't have this with our older boys. Or at least it didn't last so long if it is a phase.

Any tips, advice?

Kelly

Struggling to talk with daughter

Guest — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:38:32 +0000

My daughter is 11. I am struggling so much. She won't share anything with me. And rarely joins our family for long. No TV nights, short time at dinner, quiet car rides. It makes me sad. She has never been this introverted. Or at least not with me. Because we have always been close and open it's very hard for me to figure out how to talk with her. I'm not sure if anyone here will be willing to share their similar stories, but if so I would so appreciate it. I talk with my parents, but while they sympathize their ideas aren't helpful to make progress. I have asked her teachers but things at school seem ok. From what I hear she is always with friends and looks happy. Is this a phase, just growing up and wanting more independence? I remember pulling away from my mom around 14 or 15yo but I was not a nice kid! My daughter is a sweet kid. If you're willing, please share your thoughts. Thank you so much.

Angel

Dinner for Toddlers?

Guest — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 16:37:21 +0000

Hey guys - would love to hear what you do for dinner. It's not a picky eater issue. I'm just tired of shopping and cooking the same thing over and over again. Our 1yo eats lots of fruit and pasta. I toss in peas, ham, chicken. I'll be a happy mama if I don't see macaroni for the next few months. TIA!!